by Laura Hiddinga

For everyone with a vagina, here's your ultimate guide to achieving orgasm—on your own or with a partner

Real talk: When’s the last time you had an orgasm? If you’re in the vagina owner’s club, you may well answer: way too damn long! Studies show that only 65 percent of straight women climax during sex (versus 95 percent of men). And regardless of orientation, the unfortunate truth is: For those of us with vaginas, climaxing isn’t guaranteed. No more! Are You Coming? invites everyone with a vagina to take their sex life to the next level. . . .

Come alone. For vagina owners, self-knowledge is the path to pleasure (yet, we’ve faced eons of misinformation). Are You Coming? explains all: anatomy, toys to try, and what works for dozens of real people—no two alike.

Come together! Seeking better sex with a partner? Read on for the thirteen types of orgasm, how to talk about sex (before and after), why “foreplay” is tragically misnamed, sex positions for every want and need—and more!

Complete with quickie tips, line drawings, and fun celebrity quotes, this is the orgasm-seeker’s guide to “Oh!”

Are you coming?

“Sex-positive, empowering, and easy to read. If you want to learn more about how to harness your body's capacity for pleasure and orgasm, read this book!”—Dr. Laurie Mintz, author of Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It